It’s a fantasy, love

It’s been over three years since I dropped an L-bomb. I don’t know if that’s a long time or not – and how does one measure that anyway? – but that’s how long it’s been. And in all my years, I’ve only said that word to three men. The operative word being “said.” I’ve loved…

Owning Up and Moving On

Confession: Most of the heartache I’ve experienced has been made worse by my own doings. A few years back, I was entangled in a quasi-relationship-thing with someone. I couldn’t seem to understand why things fell apart and at the time I didn’t have the emotional maturity to deal with not having a tidy reason.  So,…